>This year was wacked. Not sure how to even begin to describe it to those of you who were not along for the ride, some of you know, and I might have time to put together a list of some of the events, but it will take some thought so I want to tell a heart-warming tale to end 2008.

>One story to end ’08

>My daughter taught me…
>Tonight while playing with my one year old I learned. I was sitting on the ground, as she would get up I would grab her and hug her. After two times I quit grabbing her, instead of running away at full speed she would actually walk backward and fall on me. The fun for her was not the play of running away but rather falling into her father’s arms.

>Never Understood Rowing
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Here in Seattle was the first time I was really introduced to rowing culture. Honestly I didn’t get it. Back East it was something that Ivy Schools did, which is funny coming from someone who played lacrosse. While we lived in Oakland a rowing club would have breakfast right next to our Men’s Bible Study on Saturday mornings, and I would often catch myself not paying attention to what we were supposed to be studying and listening to the rowing clubs conversations, and I still didn’t get it. Rowing to me seemed too early to wake up, cold, wet, expensive, lonely (even on a team your just looking at the back of someone’s head), and just outright odd.
So why am I writing all this? Because I read a quote that helped me understand and I wanted to share it with you,
"Rowers have a word for this frictionless sate: swing…Recall the pure joy of riding on a backyard swing: an easy cycle of motion, the momentum coming from the swing itself. The swing carries us; we do not force it. We pump our legs to drive our arc higher, but gravity does most of the work. We are not so much swinging as being swung. The boat swings you. The shell wants to move fast: Speed sings in its lines and nature. Our job is simply to work with the shell, to stop holding it back with our thrashing struggles to go faster. thriving too hard sabotages boat speed. Trying becomes striving and striving undoes itself. Social climbers strive to be aristocrats but their efforts prove them no such thing. Aristocrats do not strive; they have already arrived. Swing is a state of arrival."
–David Allen, Getting Things Done: The Art of Stress-Free Productivity

>How do you defend you name?
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One time at work a major client had a poor impression of my boss and actually referred to him a sneaky. This cause lots of struggle for my boss and I remembering him saying to me, "Mike, all you have is your name. You work so hard to build a good one, and then like that it is in question." I could not relate to his pain and found it amusing on one level.
Just this week I found out some news that I don’t think I was fairly represented. How do you deal with that? Defensiveness only makes you appear guilty, and then Paul says in 1 Cor. "sometimes maybe it is just better to be wronged". What a powerful tool Satan uses when he allows our name to be dishonored publicly.
This is where the power of story comes in, at least I hope. My hope in this situation is that I understand my own story well enough to communicate it in a non-defensive way. I value the perception someone already has (right or wrong) and make it easy for them to understand my part of the whole. Each one of these important but very tiny pieces we have of story are a part of a much greater story. With this greater story we might know some of the major themes, but we don’t know the twists and the turns or even at times how our little piece fits into the whole.
What harm can it do? Sometimes you might just be wronged, you don’t have to choose that as a option, but if it happens you can look to God and wink because he said it would happen. Don’t run after suffering, it will easily enough find you, when it happens give God a wink or pull on his coat to get his attention because you will need the help to get through it.

>Good Video I got to be in

>The Spaces In-Between and Fall in Seattle
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I find those who are successful use the space in-between things well, they fit in a moment to think, write, draw, workout, and do things that will keep juice flowing while returning to the other ‘important’ things they are doing.
A friend of mine says the important things always happen on the way to what you think is important. Another way to look at it is, that which you pursue you never achieve but rather what you get in the process of pursuit is the gem. Think about people who desperately want to have friends, they are the last people you want to be friends with.
The fall in Seattle offers great in-between times. Part of it is that it gets dark at 4PM. The days are very short and it doesn’t seem like there are that many useful hours in a day, whereas the summers seem very productive (and therefore terrible times for me to blog). Currently I am noticing that many of the main things, such as training, I am finding it hard to fit in, yet things for the in-between times are really impacting me. I’m watch some talks from TED: Ideas Worth Spreading. Nothing like listening to some of those folks to make you think you can change the world.
Lastly I found a really interesting headline that I did follow in the NY Times, What Happy People Don’t Do, in short they don’t watch TV. Now I love TV, I just hate having my life revolve around it. There for I love, TIVO, Netflix, NBC Online, and the various other sources that allow me to watch what I want when I want. So I’m not sure that happy people don’t watch TV, but I think they don’t watch it the way others think they should.

>A marathon and another significant event
>Karin and I arrived in MD three days ago, after two days in my parents house we left the kids and are vacationing in Washington D.C. To be specific we are staying in Old Town Alexandria and I am running the Marine Corp Marathon (MCM) on Sunday when the kids and grandparents will meet up with us.
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