…though I have often thought if you are gifted it must be. This last year has taught me so much more. First, I always knew that I did not like pain but this year I came to face how the many blessings in my life had left me spoiled. Therefore instead of being grateful and positioned for leadership, I lived with resentment. Releasing this has provided momentum to live a free life, with utter gratefulness for every moment whether easy or hard. Second, the world is much harder then I every imagined. I am an eternal optimist, hence why I can survive in sales. The truth is the world is fundamentally more broken then I feared to imagine, it is hard and not for the faint of heart. As an aside this may be one reason why so many people medicate themselves into a life of mediocrity through debt and comfort. Recognizing this for me has provided courage to move forward and joy when things do work out! It is no small thing when this happens…honestly just took it for granted that it would happen that way which is naive.
All these thoughts were sparked by a great article I read this week called The Risk of Leading with Character, by Daniel Newman . Daniel outlines both the traits of leading with character and the risks. Then he inspires me with the challenge that if we only live for the ‘now’ there is no way that we can actually Lead with Character because (and this is my thought) it is just too hard and risky.

